Julian Wolf

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Julian Wolf discovered the world of kink at the turn of the century and quickly found a continuing passion for play and education. In addition to teaching frequently around the country, Julian still serves as advocate, producer and organizer for their local and regional community and is the author of Carnal Conundrums, a Sex Positive Alternative Advice Column running at SaucySW.com. Julian is part of the Kink Academy Faculty, as well as being a sought after performer and MC. For more details on the numerous projects and adventures this egalitarian sadomasochistic dandy, you are welcome to pursue JulianWolf.net. Read Full Profile...

Interview – Darla Hallmark

 Posted by on January 10, 2014
Jan 102014
 
Interview - Darla Hallmark

By Julian Wolf

Darla Hallmark might not be a name that you’re familiar with, but if you’ve been in the kink/Leather/Fetish scene for a few years or read fantasy, you’ve likely seen her work. She has supported regional titleholders by painting/drawing their portraits and putting the image on art magnets

Feast Your Eyes

 Posted by on December 11, 2013
Dec 112013
 
Feast Your Eyes

By Julian Wolf

Most of us go through our day to day lives in familiar surroundings. The same home, the same route to work, the same isles to walk down at the same stores; the familiar is all around us. We sit in the same places, and move in the same circles. It’s easy to get lost in the familiar

Pretty Boy

 Posted by on November 23, 2013
Nov 232013
 
Pretty Boy

Recently I was told that I am “not allowed” to “be a boy” if I’m going to cosplay feminine characters (or archetypes), nor am I allowed to be gender queer if I ever present as anything other than masculine or androgynous. Additionally, I was told that I am “abrasive” if I ask someone (kindly and […]

Mentioning Unmentionables Part 1

 Posted by on April 15, 2013
Apr 152013
 
Mentioning Unmentionables Part 1

I think it’s far past time that we start mentioning our “unmentionables.” There’s a lot more to masculine cut underwear than “boxers or briefs.” (There’s a lot more to feminine cut underwear as well, but that’s a different column.) During a recent conversation with a dear friend, he mentioned that he never knew that there […]

The Scent of a Hedonist

 Posted by on August 21, 2012
Aug 212012
 
The Scent of a Hedonist

“When I raised my hand to brush the hair out of my eyes, I caught a whiff of their scent on my hand, and I couldn’t help but smile as I let my hand linger, to keep those memories closer…” Hardly a novel is written where the author doesn’t evoke the olfactory experience of being […]

Mentioning Unmentionables Part 2

 Posted by on July 18, 2012
Jul 182012
 
Mentioning Unmentionables Part 2

Panties. Bloomers. Thongs. Girdles. Briefs. Knickers. There are many names for the articles that those of the feminine persuasion don under their clothing. Lady’s undergarments have almost always been a thing of legend, from the corsets and bloomers of old to the (frequently sung about) peek-a-boo thong of today. The conversation varies from naughty innuendo […]