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Dealing with Poly Distance

September 2, 2011

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Dealing with Poly Distance

My California Summer Travels

By Indigo

It’s hard to believe the summer is over. I spent the last two weeks of August traveling throughout Los Angeles and San Francisco, California on a creative, sexy poly adventure without my partner.

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Going It Alone to The Floating World

August 19, 2011

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Going It Alone to The Floating World

By Indigo

This weekend was my first play event without my partner. My famous leather lover was off at a contest in San Francisco and left me in the protective care of a close friend at my first event as a single player, thanks to Polyamory! I had heard only good things about The Floating World…

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Going Deeper in Play

July 18, 2011

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Going Deeper in Play

By Indigo

“Let me show you how strong you are.”

This comes from Sara every time we prepare for a play event and every time, I’m intrigued, frightened and nervous for the play that is yet to come.

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Shrinking Hard Limits

June 6, 2011

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Shrinking Hard Limits

The Evolution of a Kinky Relationship

By Indigo
There comes a time in a long term kinky relationship when a couple’s hard limits begin to change. After being with my partner for as long as I have, I’ve started to realize that we’ve tried a lot

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From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow

May 9, 2011

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From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow

By Indigo

From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow : Being the Girlfriend of International Ms Leather 2011

I am pleased to announce that this year’s International Ms Leather 2011 (IMsL) is my lovely girlfriend Sara Vibes. IMsL is a competition to determine the women that will represent the leather community

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The Trouble with Two Seeking One: A Message for the Ladies

April 12, 2011

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The Trouble with Two Seeking One: A Message for the Ladies

By Indigo

Recently, my partner V and I have been celebrating our poly firsts. I had my first play date without her at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire and V has been traveling for the first time on her own which we have been calling “independent girl time.” We are both beginning to attend new events and parties that help us further explore various sexual practices and having sex with amazing hot individuals. Every day, we pat ourselves on the back for all the hard work we’ve done to get to this place in our poly relationship.

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Polyamory and Play Events

March 12, 2011

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Polyamory and Play Events

By Indigo

I have always thought that polyamory had the ability to challenge and strengthen the muscles of communication in a relationship. Nothing challenges a poly relationship more than a play event.

This past weekend V and I attended Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire (DOWF), a hotel event with sex ed workshops, parties and open play spaces.

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Dating in Your Own Species: Looking for Poly Partners

January 31, 2011

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Dating in Your Own Species:  Looking for Poly Partners

By Indigo

I find it funny that Nina Hartley knows the dynamics of my relationship. My partner V and Nina became fast friends after they met at a workshop at the Pleasure Chest in New York. V started spending time with Nina when she came to town and I knew V went to her when we were struggling in our relationship

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Taking Sarah Sloane’s Advice

January 2, 2011

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Taking Sarah Sloane’s Advice

By Indigo

One of the most amazing things about being in a strong, poly community is having other couples that are dealing with the same relationship issues you are. I don’t just write for Fearless Press; I read their wide array of articles when I am struggling somewhere in my poly relationship.

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