The Sex Closet

 Posted by on December 23, 2013
Dec 232013
 
The Sex Closet

For a proper Fantasy Sex Life, you need to have your Sex Closet fully stocked and prepared at all times. My husband and I have  spent years building up our Sex Closet.  Now it’s full of clothes and play things and costumes and other crazy good stuff. We don’t put on full out costumes every time we […]

Feast Your Eyes

 Posted by on December 11, 2013
Dec 112013
 
Feast Your Eyes

By Julian Wolf

Most of us go through our day to day lives in familiar surroundings. The same home, the same route to work, the same isles to walk down at the same stores; the familiar is all around us. We sit in the same places, and move in the same circles. It’s easy to get lost in the familiar

How The Rabbit Vibrator Has Evolved

 Posted by on November 26, 2013
Nov 262013
 
How The Rabbit Vibrator Has Evolved

Ever since that Sex and the City episode, the Rabbit vibrator has quickly become a girl’s best friend. Yet while the rabbit remains the sex toy industry’s worst kept secret, with all manner of variations and types floating around on the market today, it also demonstrates some of the many glorious enhancements made to our […]

Pretty Boy

 Posted by on November 23, 2013
Nov 232013
 
Pretty Boy

Recently I was told that I am “not allowed” to “be a boy” if I’m going to cosplay feminine characters (or archetypes), nor am I allowed to be gender queer if I ever present as anything other than masculine or androgynous. Additionally, I was told that I am “abrasive” if I ask someone (kindly and […]

Nov 122013
 
How Our Gendered Childhoods Shape Ourselves

Have you ever considered how our societies messages about gender perpetuate gender roles and stereotypes in our children? Because there is definitely a huge intersection between how we perform gender and relate to and the culture and our exposure to gender as children. Gender Through Socialization Look around at any toy store: you’ll probably see […]

Purging

 Posted by on October 6, 2013
Oct 062013
 
Purging

by Nina Love

It’s time to purge. Relax; my dinner is diligently working its way through my digestive system as we speak. It’s time to purge my closet. Yet this thought is more stressful and painstaking than sticking my finger down my throat, which is starting to sound appealing at this point.

Coping with Seasonal Changes

 Posted by on September 28, 2013
Sep 282013
 
Coping with Seasonal Changes

My column here at A Kink in the Curves is all about body image, the occasional fashion tip (like: what should I wear to my next kinky play party), and beauty products. In this month’s article, I’m going to tackle two aspects of the changing season that trip me up every year: less light and […]