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Schrodinger’s Heart

September 21, 2011

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Schrodinger’s Heart

By Graydancer “It’s hard to wait for something you know might never happen, but it’s hard to give up when it’s everything you want.” – SexCigarsBooze, via Twitter Change is hard. It reflects an uncertainty to life that we don’t like. We like to feel like we know what’s going to happen, even when the [...]

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When you Leave the Scene…

September 15, 2011

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When you Leave the Scene…

By Morgan When you leave the scene, it doesn’t leave you. I’ve lost count of the number of times a guy I’ve been involved with who at some point decided to leave the scene, only to come back in six months with a sob story and apology. My usual response is to send him straight [...]

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The Nice Girls Guide to Talking Dirty

August 9, 2011

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The Nice Girls Guide to Talking Dirty

By Lucy Lemonade

Any proper Stepford kinkster understands that the brain is the largest erogenous zone. We may dress in prim cardigans or freshly ironed dress shirts, but our filthy words can melt glass. Dirty talk, like any foreign language, can be learned with a little time and concentration.

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Behind the Veil

July 21, 2011

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Behind the Veil

Unraveling My Own Personal Identity Crisis

By DNGG

I am having an identity crisis….there I’ve said it. Recently, there’s been a lot going on in my life; there’s my academic obligations, some growing kink commitments, and now a foray into the world of sex work.

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We are Nothing

July 19, 2011

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We are Nothing

By Mako Allen

Years ago, I remember being new to kink, and very hungry for it. I spent money I didn’t really have on all sorts of toys and clothes. I embarked on the quest for the most comfortable diaper that would make me feel the most babyish. I tried all sorts of new activities

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Hedonism in Cafés

July 17, 2011

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Hedonism in Cafés

By Julian Wolf

Inns and monasteries started offering hospitality to travelers in the twelfth century, and shops specializing in coffee started opening their doors in western Europe in the seventeenth century, and by the nineteenth century casual eateries were starting to offer specialty beverages with their dining fare.

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Independence and Interdependence

July 16, 2011

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Independence and Interdependence

By C.K. Persons

The United States of America just celebrated its 235th Independence Day. All superficial sentiments aside, the holiday reminds us of the great value of freedom: freedom from anything that strips humans of dignity and freedom for the pursuit of happiness.

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YKINMK…and I’d Like to Learn More

July 14, 2011

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YKINMK…and I’d Like to Learn More

By Shanna Katz

Let’s look a little at opening our minds, and looking towards learning more about the wants, needs and kinks of others in the community.

The concept of “Your Kink Is Not My Kink” has been a long standing tenet of the kink community, both in real life and online.

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Kink Under Duress

June 21, 2011

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Kink Under Duress

By Jay Morgan

As humans, we possess a complex set of emotions, unique to each of us and our environment. Sometimes we are not always in the mood for being a sadistic top, loving bottom, or stern taskmaster. Emotional involvement, financial obligations, kids, exes…

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