By Lucy Lemonade The art of conversation has gotten lost in the new age of email and instant messages. Picking up on my last article regarding social networking and kink, I’m going to discuss the ins and outs of the introduction message. Many social networking sites have the ability to browse profiles and send a [...]
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Battle of the Breast vs. Bottle Just Got Snarkier
October 3, 2011
By TM Bernard If you have mammary glands, or simply like/love/marvel them for viewing, snuggling or other pleasures, chances are you have opinions about what they’ve been designed for. Few anatomical regions elicit as much sociopolitical vitriol as the female breast. It’s utilitarian! Cry the lactation crowds. Believe me when I say – having had [...]
Men Of A Certain Age
September 3, 2011
By Richard Wagner
There been some interest, on the part of some of my age peers, as to a possible link between masturbation and prostate cancer for us older guys.
I’ve been reading the literature on this topic for years. Every now and again a study will pop up that claims to provide a definitive answer to this perennial question.
Fat Girls are More Sexually Adventurous and Other Myths
August 6, 2011
By lunaKM
I’m not a new fat person, I’ve been fat since my pre-teens. I’ve been ridiculed and laughed at, shunned and ignored more times than I care to reflect. But as an adult, I have begun to hear some of the most insane things about large women, especially having to do with sex.
Sex and the Aging Male, Part 2
June 1, 2011
By Richard Wagner, PhD
Last time, in Part 1 of this series on sex and the aging male, we discussed andropause from a male perspective. This time, as I promised, we learn about Andropause from a female partner’s perspective
Seamless Sexuality; Senior Sexuality; Ageless Sexuality
April 4, 2011
By Richard Wagner
It’s all over the news. Seniors and elders are still having sex!
I know it’s shocking. But we have the University of Chicago’s National Social Life, Health and Aging Project to blame. Ever since they presented the results of the first comprehensive national survey of sexual attitudes, behaviors and problems among older adults in the United States, the popular culture has been having a field day.
The Future of the Defense of Marriage Act
March 9, 2011
By Aimee Bouchard
On Wednesday February 23, Attorney General Eric Holder announced that the Obama administration would no longer defend Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act.1
The decision not to defend DOMA was in relation to two pending cases Pedersen v. OPM and Windsor v. United States. The argument in both of these cases is that it is an unconstitutional Equal Protection violation for the federal government to designate which marriages it will consider valid.
Doctor-Patient Confidence: A Fat Woman in a Doctor’s Office
March 1, 2011
By lunaKM
Since moving last summer I’ve had to find new places to get my hair done, where to get my groceries and my favorite spots to eat. One thing I haven’t found yet is a doctor. I dread looking for a new primary physician. Ever since I was a teen
2 Cut, Or Not 2 Cut — Part 1
February 1, 2011
By Richard Wagner
Sometimes culturally established practices conflict with sound sexual health imperatives. Nowhere is this clash more obvious than in the touchy issue of circumcision in general, and infant circumcision in particular.
Some unaltered adult men; as well as many prospective parents are confused and conflicted about the practice.




October 6, 2011
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