MakoAllen

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Mako Allen knows fetish erotica and alternative sexuality from the inside out. He’s been in the BDSM community for more than fifteen years. He’s polyamorous, a switch, an age player, a community advocate, and an erotic author. He and his poly partners have taught classes about age play at several BDSM organizations including Black Rose and RODS. He's written short fiction for the erotic e-zine Ruthie’s Club, as well as the novel "Auntie Eva’s Boarder", which was originally published by Pink Flamingo, and is now in its second edition. Auntie Eva’s Border, is about female domination and age play, but more importantly also about coming to a place of self-acceptance with one’s sexuality. You’ll find this not-so-subtle agenda in much of his work. Read Full Profile...

The Beginning

 Posted by on January 4, 2014
Jan 042014
 
The Beginning

by Mako Allen

Years ago, I had a profound spiritual experience at a pagan festival, which resulted in my casting aside my atheist and objectivist beliefs, and becoming more spiritual. Pagans find their own particular path. The one that called to me the loudest was Taoism.

How’d I get this Way?

 Posted by on December 26, 2012
Dec 262012
 
How’d I get this Way?

Kinky folks, myself included, are often completely obsessed with genesis.  I don’t mean the one in the Christian bible, but rather their own genesis, “how they came to be the kinky person they are”.  A good friend of mine, the sex therapist Dr. Gloria Brame, says that it’s incredibly common for kinksters to carry around […]

Suck on It

 Posted by on November 25, 2012
Nov 252012
 
Suck on It

Much like many kinky people, I’m often prone to over-analyze things.  This has been a source of much suffering in my life.  Back when I was a kid, and having my first shameful fantasies about getting spanked, I used to obsess about it.  Was it bad that I wanted these things? I tortured myself for […]

Trusting Master

 Posted by on September 29, 2012
Sep 292012
 
Trusting Master

Long before we grew up to become the wonderful kinky adults we are now, we had our first run-ins with Someone Telling Us What To Do. There were parents, grandparents, babysitters, and teachers. As we grew older we added coaches, politicians, and bosses. All these people have something in common – to some degree, they […]

Begin by Ending

 Posted by on September 7, 2012
Sep 072012
 
Begin by Ending

There’s a common conceit in oriental literature called the tale cycle.  In a tale cycle, the story ends at the same point, place, or event where it begins.  We westerners though, tend to see our lives as a traditional “life story”, with a beginning, middle, and end.  But Lao-tzu could tell you that seeing your […]

Settle for Clarity

 Posted by on August 3, 2012
Aug 032012
 
Settle for Clarity

Being kinky can be frustrating, even maddening at times.  I remember, as a kid stumbling into my first fantasies, and feeling isolated and freakish, when I realized that some of the things I wanted were pretty exotic compared to most people.  I was in my early 20’s before I actively pursued kink with others openly.  […]

Having Lao Standards

 Posted by on July 13, 2012
Jul 132012
 
Having Lao Standards

Having Lao Standards I remember when I first got involved with kink, there was no shortage of people willing to “show me the ropes”, often quite literally. It wasn’t too long after I got started, that I started to hear about “true” dominants, and submissives. But how is one to know who’s got it right? […]