We are proud to have brought together a long (and constantly growing) list of regular and guest contributors who will share their resources, opinions and experiences.

Business/Group: Aimee K. Bouchard, Attorney at Law, Transcending Boundaries INC Location: Western Massachusetts Personal Website: [...]
I completed my Master’s Degree in Human Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. Prior to attending graduate school, I graduated from UC Berkeley in 2007 with a double major BA in English Literature and Anthropology while raising two yo [...]
I’m fond of saying – “I’m the Domme you can take home to your mom.” I’ve spent my personal & professional lives focused on learning what makes people tick as well as how to influence their behavior. Successfully navigating the vanilla [...]
Amethyst Wonder was spawned from the mind and libido of a then-32-year-old kinkster and self-proclaimed slut as she surfed the internet looking for kindred spirits. She identifies as a queer, femme, poly-capable, pansexual, switchtastic, geeky perver [...]
Amy Shiner is an active twenty-five year old who identifies as a Gender Queer Polyamorous Pansexual Submissive. She has been active in the lifestyle for seven years as both a practitioner and a presenter. Amy's experiences include service submission, [...]
is the Director of Community Outreach for NELA, where her tendencies towards connection and networking are put to great use. She has been teaching for over 30 years and has been kinky just as long. Bendy is committed to serving community and to creat [...]
Sacred prostitute, married pansexual, and pagan polyamorist, I have always had a deep desire to change the world through the spread of sexual empowerment and alternative loving. I am a passionate 28-year-old Canadian who offers a fresh, open and fran [...]
Brian has worked as a librarian for almost 20 years, which is why when he walks into bookstores customers immediately ask him for assistance. He specializes in researching law, sex, and wehre the two meet. He has taught classes in topics as diverse [...]
Lifetime Catholic, adult-life kinkster; work in education and nonprofit worlds. Read Full Profile... [...]
This column follows the adventures of Daddy Vinnie and his little girl, Lolita Hayes, a consensual, adult DD/lg relationship. Come along on this pervy yet sex positive journey... [...]
Deirdre is a gender studies major at Rhode Island College. She considers herself a sex-positive feminist, writer, and activist. Deirdre is an advocate for talking openly about sexuality, and revolutionizing the way sex education is taught to young pe [...]
Desmond Ravenstone is an openly kinky and polyamorous Unitarian Universalist lay leader, writer, educator and organizer living in Boston, Massachusetts. Read Full Bio... [...]
With Bachelor degrees in English and Drama, a Masters in Journalism and Mass Communication, a PhD in Cultural Studies, and a soon-to-be conferred PhD in Communications, DNGG is an overeducated but down-to-earth intellectual and kinkster. She consider [...]
Kinky physician, lifestyle submissive owned and collared by a fantastic Dominatrix. Interested in promoting a healthy community and educating Dom/mes interested in medical play to minimize the risk of this play to their bottoms/ subs.
Erin Fae is an artist and an activist. She makes books, zines, and prints, and loves talking about art and sex. Erin Fae is a femme, a feminist, and a professional queer. She has devoted her life to making the world a safer place for orgasms. < [...]
Erin is a student studying sociology. She is also a social justice activist who has worked on many full bio [...]
Heather grew up in the middle of cow country in a rural, traditional family. She learned how to bake pies, muck out stalls and sew at an early age. She also discovered sex. Once she entered college, Heather began exploring her sexuality in earnest. I [...]
I'm a fem black queer dyke who is new to the world of kink. I have a background in Elementary/Early Childhood Ed but shifting focus on teaching the arts and adult sexual education. I am also a poet and a writer, recently starting my own sex blog en [...]
Dr. Rix has come a long way to be a sex expert. Growing up as a Southern Baptist, he was taught that spirituality was heavenly... Read Full Bio [...]
Jason Hairston has always been a curious soul. His undying curiosity led him to new information and spiritual experiences that broadened his view of the world and its people. From this broadened perspective, a new life emerged for Jason anchored in [...]
Jay has spent his life assuming a variety of roles learning a skill then teaching others. He is now applying that to rope bondage and the kink lifestyle. Jay feels he has a mission to demonstrate to committed monogamous couples how empowering explori [...]
After having been born and raised on Catholicism, neuroticism, and Filipino food, JJ recently moved from the cultural confines of... Read full bio [...]
Julian Wolf discovered the world of kink at the turn of the century and quickly found a continuing passion for play and education. In addition to teaching frequently around the country, Julian still serves as advocate, producer and organizer for thei [...]
Katie Diamond is a radical queer comic artist who fuses art with politics, graphics with sex, and education with visuals as a method of altering societal norms and breaking down preconceived notions of gender and sexuality. Her work throughout New En [...]
Hi, my name is Leah Shapiro, and I am the Head Rabble Rouser at and a champion for your non-conforming soul. I help you create a life that gives you the freedom and flexibility to be your ‘freaky’ self while making money doing [...]
Lucy Lemonade is a Sexuality Consultant and Educator determined to help individuals get in touch with their sexuality and work through sexual problems. Always a proponent of incorporating toys and kink into intimate relations, Lucy presents workshops [...]
I’m luna, KnyghtMare’s submissive since 2004. I’m a SSBBW (super-sized big beautiful woman). I’ve been married, separated, divorced; and now engaged and living with my Master. I am a full-time stay-at-home submissive.
Mako Allen knows fetish erotica and alternative sexuality from the inside out. He’s been in the BDSM community for more than fifteen years. He’s polyamorous, a switch, an age player, a community advocate, and an erotic author. He and his poly par [...]
Megan Andelloux is the founder and director of The CSPH. She is a nationally certified sexuality educator through The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and a board certified se [...]
Mia Martina began her podcast, I Want Your Sex, in March of 2008 as an erotic chronicle of her adventures in the New York City sex party scene. Her short stories detail sexual exploration, relationships, love, and kink in a sexy and honest manner. As [...]
I’m a poly, kinky, pagan, heteroflexible, sex-positive, pro-feminist, almost-forty white male. I've done a lot of different things in my life, but right now I am a full time graduate student. When I'm done with my program I'll either be a teacher s [...]
At this point in my journey ,I seek to engage with those who desire to explore deeper into their submission, soul and psyche. My main focus is on my professional sessions and community education/activism. As a national educator and community activi [...]
Paying the bills requires a day job, but her real passion comes out on the weekends. Over the last decade Morghan has worked in areas including employee training, coaching, sales and education. By bringing these skills to the promotion of kink she [...]
I'm a Toppy kinkster who loves to dish it out. Despite my capacity to be a cruel and commanding, I'm generally a very friendly, polite and playful person. The word "play" defines my approach to kink very well; I intend that exchanges should be fun, a [...]
Ms. Minx is a lifetime kinkster, with a passion for deep psychological play. She has been featured in numerous magazines and tv programs, including HBO’s Real Sex and Sex Bytes, Leg Show, , Instep, Reason, New Witch, Spheres, Gothic Beauty and Mar [...]
N is an multi-form, multi-media artist who is a jill of all trades. As an award winning burlesque performer, she has traveled throughout the country to bring her queer performance artistry as “The Only Letter In Burlesque!”. She has performed eve [...]
Nina is a fierce femme, a fashion designer, an educator, a freelance writer, an activist and a Leather Woman. A native of Baltimore, Nina travels the country full-time: teaching, living, working and loving the in the Leather/BDSM community. She is [...]
I've been working in the sex field for nearly 30 years, predominately as a therapist. During that time I've been involved in all sorts of sex education and sexual enrichment projects. One such outlet is my online sex advice column that I've been wr [...]
Robin is a sex educator and advocate based in the Washington D.C. area. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Women’s Studies from Queen’s University in Canada and has studied professional and technical writing with Washington State University. S [...]
Sarah Sloane is a sexuality & relationship educator from the Washington DC metro area. She has taught literally hundreds of classes for Sex-Positive, BDSM, and Relationship-oriented organizations and events throughout the US, Canada, and overseas [...]
Sea has been aware of his interest in BDSM since early childhood. He has been a BDSM gypsy of sorts for over 13 years and regularly attends social and educational events across BDSM, leather, and fetish communities in multiple cities including Austin [...]
Sexquire is a complete sex-positive business services company. We provide legal, accounting, web design and other solutions for sex-positive businesses, non-profit organizations and individuals. Sexquire was formed to provide a one-stop shop for adul [...]
Shanna Katz is a queer kinky disabled feisty femme sexuality educator and professional pervert currently based in Phoenix, AZ. From topics like vaginal fisting to non-monogamy, and oral sex to how sexuality and dis/ability intersect, she talks, write [...]
Sinclair Sexsmith writes the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at She has contributed to more than a dozen anthologies, including four [...]
This column is a review of mainstream film and TV shows, with a focus on the issues of sexuality, kink, and gender. Screening Desire examines the multiple ways that the film entertainment industry ...
For several years i attended graduate school studying anthropology and spent nearly twenty years researching at a prominent academic institution in the Boston area. i retired early so that i may devote myself full-time to the needs of the Princess. [...]
Tinamarie is a top-rated writer of sex, love and relationships, with a special emphasis on the soulful side of intimacy. From sacred and eco-sexuality, erotica and feminism, to advice for couples who want to deepen intimacy, Tinamarie's articles can [...]
Viola is a queer femme dyke with a penchant for pearls, thick leather-bound books, and the current state of queer theory. Her first kinky experience was in the 4th grade, when she developed a literary crush on Miss Trunchbull, the headmistress in Roa [...]
The PVS is a sexual deviant of all sorts: bisexual, swinger, poly, sadist, dominant, sometimes a pro-domme, always a slut and a casual sex aficionado. Read More...