Sinclair Sexsmith writes the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at She has contributed to more than a dozen anthologies, including four Best Lesbian Erotica collections, Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch/Femme Erotica, Visible: A Femmethology Volume II, Persistence: Still Butch and Femme, and Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, and writes regularly for,, and Mr. Sexsmith is on the board of the Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York City, joined the board of the BUTCH Voices conference as Media Chair in 2012, and serves the Body Electric School as a coordinator. She is the guest editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and editor of Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, both from Cleis Press. More information about her events, workshops, and projects at Read Full Profile ...

Experiments for Better Sex: Part 2

 Posted by on October 12, 2012
Oct 122012
Experiments for Better Sex: Part 2

This article is a continuation of Experiments for Better Sex: Part 1 So now for the specifics… 1. Identify The first thing you have to do is take a good look at your sex life and identify what’s going on. Admit you have a problem, in other words. Ask yourself—and your partner—two questions: What do […]