What Did You Call Me?

 Posted by on August 20, 2013
Aug 202013
What Did You Call Me?

by Amethyst Wonder

We are sons, daughters, teachers, students, mothers, fathers, lovers, geeks, people of color, introverts, extroverts, wives, husbands. We are also queers, pervs, kinksters, sluts, butches, femmes, sissies, sadists, masochists, dominants, submissives, masters, mistresses, slaves, puppies, ponies. But what does that mean?

Jul 052012
Submissive Contemplations of Bodhisattva Warriorship

Bodhisattva Warrior, which means attaining enlightenment but foregoing nirvana to help others, is a level of perfection that is far beyond my reaches and understanding to grasp.  I view submission as working on imperfections but being accepted for who I am in the now.   My submission rarely reaches perfection.  There is always something I can work on; […]

The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

 Posted by on April 24, 2011
Apr 242011

By Amethyst Wonder

Last month, I wrote about having my sexual orientation questioned. Continuing in that theme, this month I’m writing about identifying as a switch and being told that that means I can’t be dominant…


 Posted by on January 6, 2011
Jan 062011

By Amethyst Wonder

In the past few weeks, I’ve heard the term “heteronormative” used in at least five different ways. Some people were offended by the thing the term described; some were offended by the term itself. It made me think.