By Micah Schneider In the last month, I’ve seen this question come up in more than one place. Is polyamory something that you do, or is it something that you are? Are some people poly the same way some people are homosexual or straight, submissive or dominant or a greedy bisexual switch? My answer is [...]
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Stalking the Elusive “Unicorn”
September 8, 2011
By Micah Schneider Once you get into the online polyamory world, it won’t be long before you see your first personal ad from a couple looking for their “unicorn”. All of you poly veterans out there are already nodding your heads. In the poly world, a “unicorn” is a young, single, non-crazy, sexually adventurous, drug [...]
Dealing with Poly Distance
September 2, 2011
My California Summer Travels
By Indigo
It’s hard to believe the summer is over. I spent the last two weeks of August traveling throughout Los Angeles and San Francisco, California on a creative, sexy poly adventure without my partner.
Going It Alone to The Floating World
August 19, 2011
By Indigo
This weekend was my first play event without my partner. My famous leather lover was off at a contest in San Francisco and left me in the protective care of a close friend at my first event as a single player, thanks to Polyamory! I had heard only good things about The Floating World…
STI Comfort Zone
August 10, 2011
By Micah Schneider
A friend messaged me the other day to ask for advice. This friend was in a bit of a bind, and wanted an outside opinion. My friend, who has been poly for a long time, has a partner who has started a relationship with someone new.
Living a “Normal” Life
July 6, 2011
By Micah Schneider
If you’ve been paying attention to this column since it began last year, there is a new article every month. The exception being when our little Munchkin was born three months ago, but I got a pass for that.
Shrinking Hard Limits
June 6, 2011
The Evolution of a Kinky Relationship
By Indigo
There comes a time in a long term kinky relationship when a couple’s hard limits begin to change. After being with my partner for as long as I have, I’ve started to realize that we’ve tried a lot
Prioritizing Your Partners
May 22, 2011
By Micah Schneider
In the last few days, I’ve been thinking about something repeatedly. It isn’t too surprising, as the last few months have been really busy for my family. We welcomed the birth of our first child in early April…
From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow
May 9, 2011
By Indigo
From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow : Being the Girlfriend of International Ms Leather 2011
I am pleased to announce that this year’s International Ms Leather 2011 (IMsL) is my lovely girlfriend Sara Vibes. IMsL is a competition to determine the women that will represent the leather community




October 7, 2011
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