Mako Allen knows fetish erotica and alternative sexuality from the inside out. He’s been in the BDSM community for more than fifteen years. He’s polyamorous, a switch, an age player, a community advocate, and an erotic author. He and his poly partners have taught classes about age play at several BDSM organizations including Black Rose and RODS. He's written short fiction for the erotic e-zine Ruthie’s Club, as well as the novel "Auntie Eva’s Boarder", which was originally published by Pink Flamingo, and is now in its second edition. Auntie Eva’s Border, is about female domination and age play, but more importantly also about coming to a place of self-acceptance with one’s sexuality. You’ll find this not-so-subtle agenda in much of his work. Read Full Profile...

The Hell with Should

 Posted by on March 21, 2011
Mar 212011

By Mako Allen

Back in my early teens, I was convinced that if I didn’t get a spanking and soon, I’d just about die from unhappiness. I thought that all I had to do was get that spanking and I’d be fine, and everything would be great. Some pain in my bottom would forever remove that lingering pain in my chest, right? Sadly, that just wasn’t the case.

An Unending Labor… of Love

 Posted by on February 16, 2011
Feb 162011

By Mako Allen

The Tao is divided into two distinct halves, yin and yang. We’ve all seen the yin-yang symbol, the taijitu before. What many people don’t know is that yang is the male half, and one of its meanings is sunlight on the face of a mountain. Yin is the female half, and one of its meanings is the shadow cast in the valley of that same mountain.

Nobody Special

 Posted by on January 8, 2011
Jan 082011

By Mako Allen

I’ve got some bad news for you: you’re not special. There’s good news though too. Neither is anybody else. We are all one in the Tao. This is a very tough lesson for kinky people, because it’s a very tough lesson for anybody.

No Expectations

 Posted by on October 15, 2010
Oct 152010

by Mako Allen

One of my favorite Lao-tzu quotes is “A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent upon a destination.” That’s good advice for travelers and for kinky people too. I think that the notion of “fixed plans” speaks to both judgment and expectation. We’ve all heard judgments before like “spanking is great, but I’d never want to be whipped.” Expectations are just judgments that haven’t happened yet.