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Complicated Polyamory

November 20, 2010

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Complicated Polyamory

By Sarah Sloane

Dear Sarah,

I am in a poly network that mostly works for me, but one of my partner’s partners and I do not get along. We have tried several ways of communicating and all of it seems to end badly. The other partner & I agreed to not have much contact, but my partner still gets caught in the middle

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Where to start?

October 20, 2010

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Where to start?

Dear Sarah,

My partner and I are just starting to explore service-giving & receiving, and I must confess that I’m stumped as to how to start. Yesterday, I helped her dress and tied her shoes, and I enjoyed it greatly, but I’m not sure where else to go. Please help?

-A.

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‘Polishing up’ service skills

September 15, 2010

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‘Polishing up’ service skills

Dear Sarah,

I’m a service submissive that is currently looking for a Dominant, and in the meantime I’d like to improve my skills. Do you have any recommendations for ‘polishing’ up my service skills?

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Service Advice

July 18, 2010

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Service Advice

Dear Sarah:

As a service submissive I know my voice should be respectful when I’m addressing my dominant, but I have a naturally bratty tone to my voice. What can I do to improve that, and make sure that I sound as polite as I want to?

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Screening Service Submissives

June 6, 2010

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Screening Service Submissives

Dear Sarah,

I am a Dominant looking for a service submissive, what is best way to screen someone?

Signed, K.

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Enjoy Service, Dislike Assignments

June 4, 2010

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Enjoy Service, Dislike Assignments

“I enjoy service submission, but sometimes dislike the actual assignments given by Dominants. How do I do things well, when I don’t want to do it?”

That’s totally an understandable situation. I personally hated cleaning the glass & frames for the artwork in my Leather Daddy’s house, to the point where I would literally have to fight myself to do it – so I definitely can relate! Here are a few things to think about…

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