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Queer Identity #2

August 2, 2011

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Queer Identity #2

By Shanna Katz

This month’s Out of the Box identity is another look at a different person’s Queer identity. Krystal Marie is a recent college graduate who has been kind enough to share with us her take on her Queer identity, as well as the intersections that come with her other identities.

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From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow

May 9, 2011

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From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow

By Indigo

From Pageant Mom to Handler to Sash Widow : Being the Girlfriend of International Ms Leather 2011

I am pleased to announce that this year’s International Ms Leather 2011 (IMsL) is my lovely girlfriend Sara Vibes. IMsL is a competition to determine the women that will represent the leather community

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Multiple Identities = Multiple Forms of Oppression

April 1, 2011

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Multiple Identities = Multiple Forms of Oppression

By Shanna Katz

I’m part of the LGBTQ community. Sometimes it isn’t that great; I have less rights than many members of our society, I can be fired just for being queer in many states, and while hate crimes laws exist, it doesn’t prohibit bullying of folks like me, the stares, being yelled at and told I’m sinning, and so on.

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Policing Our Communities

February 7, 2011

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Policing Our Communities

By Shanna Katz

I love being queer, and most of the time, I love the queer community. However, I don’t like the policing that often goes on inside the queer community, and I’m now seeing similar policing happening in the kink community, and I’m sorry, but I think it is poppy cock!

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Okay, Cupid!(and other horny people on the internet)

February 2, 2011

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Okay, Cupid!(and other horny people on the internet)

By Viola

I am on OkCupid. While I don’t specify that I’m poly, I list myself as “available” instead of “single” and made a point to answer all of the kink-related questions so that the little picture of the dominatrixesque butt shows up on my profile to act as a filter. I specify “no men, no couples.”

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I Am Who I AM

December 31, 2010

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I Am Who I AM

By Shanna Katz

When I lived in Denver, I was lucky enough to be a fairly active member of the thriving kink community – multiple dungeons, in a kink family, throwing my own queer and women/trans play parties. At times, I was an anomaly in certain spaces;

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Year of the Queer: Glee, Dan Savage, Jane Lynch, and Newsweek

December 28, 2010

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Year of the Queer:  Glee, Dan Savage, Jane Lynch, and Newsweek

By Viola

He created the ‘It Gets Better’ video campaign. She stars in ‘Glee,’ the gayest show in the history of network TV. So we thought: who better to ask about the gay lay of the land?

–Newsweek

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Poly is a Gateway Drug

December 13, 2010

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Poly is a Gateway Drug

By Katie Diamond

This past Thanksgiving weekend, I got to spend time with one of my oldest friends. We got together at my parents’ house, and determined that we needed to relocate some place cozy and alcohol related. In the suburban depths of South Florida, we could find the alcohol, but not really the cozy

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Dear Queer Community, Thanks for the Love – A Chubby Girl

September 9, 2010

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Dear Queer Community, Thanks for the Love – A Chubby Girl

by Shanna Katz

The other day, I was asked about why there is so much fat acceptance in the queer community. Now, of course it wasn’t phrased quite as respectfully as that, but I like to think of it in a nicer way.

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