Life-Saving Lewdness

 Posted by on November 24, 2012
Nov 242012
Life-Saving Lewdness

You’ve probably all heard that there’s nothing to fear but fear itself.  If you’re anything like me, you probably always wondered what the fuck that even meant and why everybody always said it to you when you were scared of something (I personally told all said people to fuck off and fear my wrath if […]

Meditative Fear Play

 Posted by on October 18, 2012
Oct 182012
Meditative Fear Play

I recently had the experience of becoming friends with my fear. Fear can exist in many ways and in Buddhism, it is one of the key beliefs of meditation, and  throughout your day, you have to sit with it.  Not push it away, not try to block it out, but acknowledge that thoughts exist and […]

Struggling with Desires

 Posted by on July 1, 2011
Jul 012011

By Sarah Sloane

Dear Sarah:

What would you suggest for someone who struggles with expressing sexual and S&M desires? I have them…in spades…but I have issues asking for what I want, both because of fear of rejection but also struggling with seeming “too weird”. I have an odd play history…